Step 3: Allow Flow
A relationship between a woman and man is synergistic. It’s the feminine energy coming together with the masculine energy that literally creates life.
I know this sounds a bit woo woo, so bear with me and it will all make sense.
Feminine energy vs masculine energy
Feminine energy is very potent. It brings everything to life. It inspires, creates and nurtures. It’s intuitive and radiant.
On the other hand, masculine energy is about grounding, logic, focus, assertiveness, and courage.
On an energy level, when the wife is fully expressing her feminine and the husband is fully expressing his masculine, the marriage blossoms. It brings out the best in each person to create a harmonious and fertile ground for the expression of love, happiness and giving.
Now without assigning blame, this is what happens when the balance is off:
When the wife isn’t fully in her feminine, it causes the husband to step more into the feminine. This causes him to be out of his masculine where he naturally thrives and he’ll feel frustrated, stressed and unhappy without really knowing why.
Also, if the wife is less able to express her feminine energy, she may not notice a problem at first, but she will eventually resent the husband, start to feel unsettled, insecure and empty in the relationship.
The key is to own your feminine energy.
When a women owns their feminine energy, the husband will notice a shift. The feminine energy inspires him to be a better man and he’ll feel motivated and more driven.
You’re in effect creating a space for him to feel good about himself, and this, in turn, leads him to seeing you as a source of inspiration and motivation.
He’ll want to do better for you, he’ll want to bring more to the marriage, he’ll delight in being a team with you and he’ll embrace you.
Your feminine energy is a very potent force that is highly motivating to your husband.
Putting it all together
We’ve covered the three steps to rebuilding your marriage
Step 1 Lead not plead
When it comes to fixing the marriage, YOU can lead the change.
Talking through issues won’t help, and counseling won’t help.
All it takes is one person to light the spark.
Step 2 Release the triggers
You need to let go of what’s happened, what’s been said, and the hurts or injustices you feel.
It’s not about who’s right or wrong, or who should apologize.
You need to free yourself from any mental fog in order to make a clear way to focus on your recovery plan.
Step 3 Allow flow
Shift the way you see your role as a wife and embrace your feminine energy.
This creates a space for him to bring his best to your relationship mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, and spiritually.
He’ll be in his flow and you’ll be in yours creating lasting love and connection.
What to do next
You may be thinking, all this sounds good, but where do I start?
What are the actions I should be taking right now?
Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered.
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