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If you are reading this you are probably in a situation where you are contemplating divorce, despite an earlier time when everything was wonderful, you now find yourself in a quandary about what can be done to save your marriage and certainly your relationship. Your like millions who do not want there marriage to end in divorce. You are not alone as statistics support the fact that over  50% of marriage relationships end in divorce and oftentimes with considerable malice, anger and a complete breakdown in communication. So, read more and learn how to save your marriage with good sound advice.

There are many common marriage problems which contribute to a marriage break-up.  From infidelity and lack of individual sex drive to financial problems and unemployment, it is not difficult to compile a long list of marrriage problems that lead to marital annulment or divorce.  While everyone’s situation is unique to their individual circumstance, I submit that there are several factors that are frequently the basis for a declining marriage relationship.

Infidelity  – When one partner seeks or allows outside sexual contact, the fundamental element of trust in a marriage quickly diminishes .  Whether a one-night-stand or an on-going relationship, it is rare and extremely difficult for the victim to ever re-gain the trust, respect, and oftentimes love of the erring marriage partner.

Sex Drive – When one partner’s sex drive diminishes to the point of infrequent or indifferent sexual contact, the other partner will eventually seek other outlets for sexual gratification and release.  Whether the lack of one’s libido is related to health issues, stress, or other factors, the partner whose sex drive is normal, at least what it used to be, is likely to venture away which may lead to marriage separation or divorce.

Lack of Communication – Probably the single biggest reason a marriage fails is an overall lack of communication.  Sharing thoughts, feelings, goals, and shortcomings, freely is usually a component of a successful marriage.  Good news or bad, both parties must be willing to accept the truth when it comes to their partner’s feelings.  If they are not communicated and talked-out, the marriage is on a short course for failure.

Family Interference – Marriage partners cannot allow outsiders, even family members and loved ones, interfere with the day-to-day activities, decisions, and choices that should be reserved for a married couple.  Getting input is one thing.  Allowing a ‘nosy’ family member to assert their will on a married couples decisions is a sure way to bring friction into the relationship that, unless nipped in the bud, will introduce a higher likelihood of marital dissolution.

Financial Difficulty – Another factor, high on the list of reasons why a marriage cannot be saved, is related to money.  Not only the lack of money but also if one partner does not share the values of the other and over-extends the family’s financial resources, problems are sure to arise which may lead to irrecoverable damage. 

Job Loss – Related to finances is the possibility that one partner or the other may experience a job loss.  When this occurs, particularly during challenging economic times, this can spell disaster for some couples and put the stability of their marriage relationship to the ultimate test. 

Individual Growth and Maturity – ‘Til death do us part’ may be a very long time and during that time there is no guarantee that both parties will grow, develop, and mature at the same pace of their partner.  While it is ideal for a marriage to last forever, sometimes individuals fall out of love for no particular reason that is attributable to their partner.  (I used to love blue jeans but now my taste for casual attire excludes them altogether.)  If mutual respect is still present but marital love is not, it is probably best for the parties to divorce amicably.

Happily Ever After – For one person to meet all of the physical, emotional, spiritual, sexual, intellectual, etc. needs, of another person, for eternity, is a very tall order to fill.  When the mutual will and desire to give and take common marriage problem of, love and be loved, honor and be honored, obey and be obedient, has fizzled, the marriage is on a short course for failure.

Now, lets discuss what one may do to save the marriage. See the Topic section……..

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